There are no words that will make this easier, but to begin I must remind you all that this is not the end. So with that said, buck up lets get this show on the road, because the real party begins after.
I cannot say it too much, respect your elders! Do nothing that will upset their world. So please go through the motions to get this done with. Do not drag it out.
but do not let them bully you around!
No one is allowed in my house unless all agree to it,
do not have pity parties please.